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Ego | The Illusion of Self Created by Thought

The ego is often understood as the part of ourselves that craves recognition, status, and validation. It’s the voice in our heads that tells us we need to be more, do more, or have more in order to be worthy or fulfilled. The ego thrives on comparison and seeks to create a sense of superiority, control, or identity based on external circumstances. However, through the understanding of the Three Principles—Mind, Thought, and Consciousness—we begin to see that the ego is not a fixed part of who we are. Instead, it’s simply a creation of thought, a temporary identity that we mistakenly believe to be real.

When we understand the role of thought in shaping our experience, we begin to recognize that the ego is not something we need to overcome or dismantle—it’s something we see through. The ego is an illusion created by thought, and when we see it for what it is, its hold on us weakens. This insight allows us to reconnect with our true self, the deeper intelligence that lies beyond the stories the ego tells.

Thought and the Creation of Ego

The ego is built on the stories we tell ourselves about who we are. These stories are the product of thought, and they often arise from comparisons, judgments, or desires for approval. We may define ourselves by our accomplishments, our social status, our material possessions, or even our failures. But these identities are not fixed—they shift depending on what we’re thinking in any given moment.

For example, one day we might feel proud and accomplished because of something we achieved, and the next day we may feel insecure because of a perceived failure. The ego constantly shifts, depending on the thoughts that occupy our minds. When we begin to see that these thoughts are fluid and ever-changing, we stop identifying so strongly with the ego’s stories. We realize that the sense of "self" created by the ego is just a temporary construct, not a true reflection of who we are.

The problem arises when we believe the ego’s stories are real and unchangeable. We might cling to certain thoughts about ourselves—whether positive or negative—and let them define us. This creates a limited and often stressful experience of life. We feel compelled to protect, defend, or enhance this fragile sense of self, which is why the ego can lead to feelings of anxiety, competition, or dissatisfaction.

However, the moment we recognize that the ego is simply a creation of thought, we begin to see through its illusions. The thoughts that form the ego are not permanent, and as they shift, so too does our sense of identity. This understanding frees us from the constant need to manage or fix the ego. Instead, we can allow thoughts to come and go without getting caught up in the identity they create.

Why Do We Identify with the Ego?

The ego provides us with a sense of certainty and identity in an ever-changing world. It gives us something to hold onto—a narrative about who we are, what we’ve achieved, and how we compare to others. But this sense of certainty is fragile because it’s built on thought, which is inherently unstable.

We identify with the ego because it offers the illusion of control. By defining ourselves through external achievements, status, or validation, we feel like we have some control over how we are perceived and, therefore, how we experience life. But this control is an illusion. No matter how much we achieve or how many accolades we receive, the ego’s desire for more never stops. There’s always something else to prove or accomplish, which keeps us stuck in a cycle of striving and dissatisfaction.

The truth is that the ego’s stories are just thoughts—they are not a reflection of our true self. Once we see this, we stop trying to manage or defend the ego’s identity. We realize that true fulfillment doesn’t come from external validation but from reconnecting with the deeper intelligence of Mind.

Consciousness and Awareness of the Ego

Consciousness plays a vital role in helping us become aware of the ego and its impact on our experience of life. Through this awareness, we can observe the ego at work without getting caught up in its demands. We begin to see that the ego’s cravings for approval, success, or validation are based on thought, not reality.

For example, we might find ourselves feeling frustrated because we didn’t receive recognition for something we worked hard on. In that moment, the ego tells us that we need that external validation in order to feel good about ourselves. But when we become aware of this thought process, we can step back and realize that our frustration is not caused by the lack of recognition—it’s caused by the thought that we need recognition to feel worthy.

This awareness allows us to disidentify from the ego’s stories and reconnect with a deeper sense of peace and fulfillment. As we become more conscious of the role thought plays in shaping the ego, the ego loses its grip on us. We stop feeling the need to constantly prove ourselves or protect our fragile sense of identity. Instead, we experience a deeper sense of freedom, knowing that our true self is not defined by the ever-changing stories of the ego.

Mind: The True Self

Beyond the temporary stories created by the ego lies our true self, connected to the universal intelligence of Mind. Mind is the deeper intelligence behind life, and it is not concerned with the ego’s desires for recognition, status, or validation. When we align with this deeper intelligence, we experience a sense of peace, well-being, and fulfillment that doesn’t depend on external circumstances.

The true self, rooted in Mind, is much more expansive than the limited identity the ego creates. It’s the part of us that knows we are inherently whole and complete, regardless of what we achieve or how others perceive us. The ego operates from a place of lack—it always seeks to fill a void, whether through success, material possessions, or approval from others. But the true self operates from a place of abundance. It knows that we are already enough, simply by being.

When we align with this deeper intelligence, we stop feeling the need to defend or protect the ego. We no longer need to prove ourselves because we understand that our worth is not tied to the ego’s stories. This realization brings a sense of freedom and peace, as we no longer chase external validation or approval. We can simply be, knowing that our true self is infinitely more powerful and expansive than the fleeting identities created by the ego.

Living Beyond the Ego

Living beyond the ego doesn’t mean we stop having thoughts about ourselves or that we no longer care about external success or recognition. It simply means that we no longer let the ego’s stories define us. We can enjoy success, relationships, and achievements without being controlled by them. We can engage with life fully, knowing that our true self remains intact, no matter what happens in the external world.

This understanding allows us to approach life with a sense of lightness. We stop taking the ego’s demands so seriously and begin to see through the illusion of self that it creates. In doing so, we experience a deeper sense of inner peace and fulfillment—one that is not dependent on external circumstances but rooted in the deeper intelligence of Mind.

Conclusion

The ego is an illusion created by thought. When we see through this illusion and reconnect with our true self, we experience a deeper sense of peace and fulfillment that is not tied to external recognition or success. The ego’s stories are just temporary constructs, shaped by thought in the moment. As we become more aware of this, we stop identifying with the ego and instead align with the deeper intelligence of Mind, where true freedom and peace reside.