The Feeling That Changes Everything: A Conversation About Relationships

The Feeling at the Heart of Every Relationship

Whether you're in a romantic partnership or navigating friendships, family, or work dynamics, this conversation between George and Linda Pransky and coach Rachel Langer offers something deeply human: a reminder that relationships are built not on strategies, but on feeling.

From decades of helping couples, George and Linda have seen one thing clearly: relationships flourish when there’s goodwill. Not because problems disappear, but because goodwill changes how you experience and respond to the people in your life.

“I started to realize the feeling I live in matters to me,” Linda shares. “And I want to communicate from that feeling.”

From Conflict to Curiosity

Linda recounts how, early in their marriage, she would often feel that George didn’t love her enough. Her instinct was to argue and analyze. But with the guidance of Sydney Banks, she began to see that the way out wasn’t found in overthinking or blaming—it was found in dropping the problem from her mind.

By setting aside right and wrong and giving up the mental habit of “fixing,” Linda discovered space for a different kind of insight—one that allowed her to see George's distracted state of mind for what it was: innocent, not personal. That realization shifted everything.

Moods, Memory & Meaning

The conversation also explores how our mood can influence how bothered we feel, how memory keeps past hurts alive, and how the human experience is designed to move—if we leave it alone.

“We're built to flow,” Linda explains. “And our free will is what either allows that, or holds us in place.”

Whether it’s pausing before having a tough conversation, asking permission, or simply deciding to get curious instead of defensive, what’s clear is that every relationship has the potential for a reset. And it doesn’t require two people changing at once. As George and Linda remind us, change in one person affects the whole system.

It’s Never Too Late

This recording isn’t a list of tips. It’s a real conversation from people who’ve lived the ups and downs—and found their way back to connection. It’s about seeing the power we already have to shift our internal experience, drop what doesn’t help, and bring warmth back into the relationship.

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